Looking for some advice

[joejoe1]

Mxdup,

My wife told me the same thing about a month ago. I took a while for me to detach and fir her to see me distancing.

My wife also told me, if I loved her I would of bent and figured out the problems I was causing. Guess what I didn't. So it's time to forgive yourself and move forward. You cant fix what you dont know atthise moments. It's time to move forward and upward.

Don't worry about AM. If You are doing what you need to do, she will notice.

So my wife said she felt smothered and she said I was following her around the house and she felt like she was a caged animal.

At that point, I said for get. I told myself. I'm going to give her all the space she needs. So starting almost 3 weeks ago, I went to meetup.com, found a meetup with some cool people. I came home after work got dressed and left.

That very weekend I went up to Austin and went ziplinning(fun as he'll by the way). The next week I was out the house on Monday and Wednesday night. The next week I was out the house Tuesday ( this was a meetup.com hike, I burned over 900 calories and met some more cool people. The leader of the meetup was a pastor and gave me great advice. GOD work in Mysterious ways) and Wednesday night. On the days we were home together, if she was upstiars I was downstairs and vice versa.

Oh I go to church by myself every Sunday, taking the boys this Sunday. The events I didnt give a discription about are church events.

Now back to my wife, by time I was gling up to Austin she thought I we going with another women. Now she's calling and texting. Calling my name in the house. A month ago none of this was happening. I told her yesterday, that I have plans for two upcoming weekend. I dont tell her what I'm doing. I just tell her I'm going out and when I will be back. In confused on not telling her my whereabouts, especially if she ask. She asked yesterday, where I'm going on one of those weekends I tokd her Dallas, but I didnt tell her why.

All can say, is to me some of her walls has came down.

Oh by the way, those two weekends, I'm going bungee jumping and skydiving.

Become mysterious, attractive and confident.