Lost on how to save my marriage! 3

[joejoe1]

Sandi2,

Thanks for the detaching info.

I have been changing up my detaching tactic. I'm adding the love, and taking away so much of the coldness.

With that being said. Now my wife is calling, texting, and calling my name to come look at someting on the TV and do her favors. She has been coming next o me. But I know she hasn't come close to changing her mind. I feel she is doing these things as temp testing. I also feel like a friend while she does these things.

When she call and text she starts off talking about the kids and then go into her talkative self, before BD. She has been also telling me her plans. She hasn't told me her plans for months. Now I don't tell her mind. I see this as, now I'm telling you my plans, you should me yours. What do you all think?

I think I'm gauging this right, what do you'll think.

I almost messed up and bought her favorite M&Ms. But in that moment when I had them in my hand, I realized, that would be a mistake, because she would probably take it as if I think she is thinking about staying in the marriage. So I put them back.