My Story...

[Don23]

well my plan was to hang with my kids all weekend and move back into the house on Sunday when I return them to Mom. I need some advise however as i am contemplating just going back today.

We have a security system on our home and I get alerts if doors open at odd hours. I should probably turn the alerts off but so far I havent. My wife went out last night which was no surprise or anything. I got the alert at 12:15am that the front door just opened. I thought, wow, she didnt stay out nearly as late as I figured she would. Anyway, it woke me up. Curiosity got the best of me as it often does....I know, it shouldnt and I'm very close now to being in a state of mind where it wont. However, it did last night and I was now awake so I logged into our phones website and looked at call logs. There have been 2 guys in the picture for a while now. I dont the extent either of the relations has gone. The Personal Trainer is the one Im sure my wife wants to be with and has for months now. He however is married which makes that task much more difficult. The 2nd guy is someone in her workout classes, he is a single father and I feel is the one filling the role until my wife can get her personal trainer away from his wife. I'm fairly certain she has been intimate with both. Back to the phone logs... She gets home at 1215 and I see there is a 2min phone call from the 2nd guy at 1219. So I assume she was with him when she went out and he was probably saying goodnight and checking if she made it home safe. I then click on the text's and there are probably 30 texts from the PT from 11:45 to 1a.m. This is someone that she hasn't really been able to communicate much with since he's married but maybe his wife fell asleep or is away. Anyway, it [censored] to see these things but it didn't make me sad or anything, I feel Im passed that now. However, talk on this thread had people mentioning that what happens if she moves one of these guys in to your home. I thought no chance at all she would and I still think that but I could see the possibilities now. She could have a gathering at the house with her new found friends and i could see one of them sticking around longer than the rest. It would be awkward with all the family pictures and wedding books and stuff hung up all over the house but it wouldnt stop either dude I know that.

now I'm wondering if I shouldn't just load the kids up and move back today instead of waiting until tomorrow like I had planned. I'm ready to just be in the way. I've been walker over for the past 10 years and Im actually excited for this conversation where Im going to tell her to move out. And I wont mind if she says she will, or argues or anything. Im moving back and thats that, just need to know when.