MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[peacetoday]

Hi

sorry you find yourself here
MLC is baffling..It is not about you though it is him

His texting about money--I would either ignore or simply state that the matter has to be handled legally and fairly

The MLCer may want things his way...they no longer care about the LBS or the children
They are in a crises it is real sometimes fueled worse by addiction and unresolved childhood issues
they run from their pain and all resposibility
IT is not your fault nor can you fix him or get thru to him

I got a free consultation with a very good L
He made me aware of everything I was entitled to..I did this for information so I knew if it came to that
I didn't file eventually XH did..It took him about 2 years to file

so I would encourage any LBS to seek legal advice so you are prepared just in case

do not agree to anything
the MLcer would want to call the shots and financially not pay at all
I know a gal who trusted her XH in this and signed an agreement written by him
where she agreed to not take anything
she lost it all and her house as well

when It comes to D and property and alimony
it changes from a Marriage to a business deal
Do what is best for you and your S
MLC takes a long time and sometimes they never return to normal

all the best
peace