Kaizen, yeah I like those goals. Much easier to track. My goal is to make it a week and not snark or kid the W. It's so hard since it is kind of my thing, plus the resentment just comes out. But that is also what makes it a good goal.
Validating BS overreactions goes completely against what I believe, but I'm trying to do it anyway. Although, I have to say in the extreme it makes you ask: "getting along at what cost?" My answer is clear: my boys and commitment, but I doubt I will be able to do this long-term. I don't want to do it long-term, or maybe I should say that often.
As for LRT: I do think I'm there. If I had the funds, she would be out of the house, we'd have lawyers and be in D proceedings. She's absolutely convinced this is over. We don't discuss R. If I don't talk to her, she doesn't say a word to me. It is actually pretty impressive. She has never shown any doubt. I say all this and then she actually calls me today, but it was extenuating circumstances. I'll post about that later.
Kylo 2.0 looks like a good exercise. I'll do it.
M: 41 W: 41 Married 2003 2 boys 9 & 6 Bomb Dropped May 2017
