THAT GUY was definitely more loving and attentive. THAT GUY would spend time talking about the future and goal setting over a cup of coffee in the morning. THAT GUY was much more affectionate and would say I love you often and give long hugs before leaving for the day.
Unfortunately, now isnt really the time to start doing those things to W. But I think it's time you get back to being that guy in general. What was he like during the separation? What enticed her to want to consider reconciling?
How can you help to ingreate those qualities into your permanent persona and not just as a 'trick' to 'win her back'?
