Originally Posted By: Kaizen
So what was the period of time like while you were separated? What was THAT GUY like that drew her back? How do you (now) compare with him?


This is a really good question that has me thinking. THAT GUY was definitely more loving and attentive. THAT GUY would spend time talking about the future and goal setting over a cup of coffee in the morning. THAT GUY was much more affectionate and would say I love you often and give long hugs before leaving for the day.

I guess the only change I was able to maintain was my involvement with the business.


Me: 42
W: 47
S: 10
M: Almost 10 in Oct
T: 15
1st BD: Feb 2016
Divorce Filed: Mar 2016
Separated: Mar 2016
Reconciled: Oct 2016
2nd BD: Aug 2017