During this time the business had become priority #1 and we really lost any connection we had. We were so busy we didn’t spend hardly any time at all together.
Divorce threat #2
Originally Posted By: lostrig
I didn’t want to make the same mistake so I went full steam into the business. I worked harder this past year than I have in my life.
Im sorry, but I dont understand. It looks like after you 'reconnected', it went back to same old, same old?
What is different about you now than from before Divorce threat #1?
What kinds of goals do you have about how you want to be different in the future?
Divorce Threat #1 She felt that I could have been putting more into the business. Coming from a job that consumed my life I was trying to find a work/life balance.
Divorce Threat #2 After the reconciliation I gave everything to the business. I was working weekends, late night, early mornings and holidays.
Her biggest complaint previously was that I could have been applying more of myself to growing the business. My goal at that time was to show my W that I could and would give all I had to take more of the load with the corporation which is exactly what I did this past year.
Personally I feel like right now as a goal I do need to find more of a work/life balance but that is what started the original BD to begin with.
Me: 42 W: 47 S: 10 M: Almost 10 in Oct T: 15 1st BD: Feb 2016 Divorce Filed: Mar 2016 Separated: Mar 2016 Reconciled: Oct 2016 2nd BD: Aug 2017
