M- no I did not talk it as rude. I appreciate all insight that is why I bring stuff here. You are right; there is no point to mind read, that goes against all detaching and my personal 180.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1