What to Do? 2

[chris19]

Not sure; just missing W I guess. Have a "un-detached" day.

[chris19]

Im super stressed and work and school right now. And W always knows how to make it less painful. I guess I'm missing that aspect right meow.

[joejoe1]

That happens. Our moods will be up and down as well. What is your GAL for today?

[chris19]

Unfortunately I have tons of school work to do. But I will be hitting the gym later tonight. That's always my resort!

[joejoe1]

I'm going hiking. I know its hard to concentrate in these crazy sitch. Keep up the hard work in school.

[chris19]

So the W face time'd me today. I did not answer the call. I know she was with the niece; so she was probably using her as an excuse to FaceTime me so I could see her.

[chris19]

Hey board;

Not much updating. It is payday; so W and I have been ironing some movement of money out over text messaging. I am being direct and not asking, "can I", "could you", etc.

She told me see is getting some gas during her lunch hour bc she has like $1 off; and asked me if I wanted to come get some as well. Not sure if this is a good idea or not; just looking for some advice.

[joejoe1]

Chris,

I think saving money is always a great idea. I think you can except invites like this. Just know what the expectations are. You are going just to get gas and save money. And tell her thanks.

[chris19]

Just got back. Hugged when we saw each other. Convo went smooth; no R talks. I asked her what she had going on this weekend; when she asked me I just said I had plans. Talked for like 10 minutes about dumb stuff. Then as the convo was wrapping up; said thanks and got in my car.

No sure what will come off this; maybe she needed one more feel to see if she's still wanting a D....or maybe she's just goating.

[Maika]

Hugged when we saw each other

Is that something you can do without attaching any expectations to that behaviour? Just asking because you can go read up on the last 30 posts on my sitch and see what happened. If you think hugging as a small action might turn anything around, it's not.

I asked her what she had going on this weekend

Don't.

when she asked me I just said I had plans

Good.

Talked for like 10 minutes about dumb stuff.

Did you really need to have the small talk? If you have no business to attend to, end it and leave.

No sure what will come off this

Most likely nothing.

maybe she needed one more feel to see if she's still wanting a D.

Nope. one more feel isn't going to turn this around. Stop mind reading - it's really toxic for your own mental health.

or maybe she's just goating.

Who knows. Maybe. Maybe not. stop mind reading.