I also had the complaint of neglect from my W. What was explained to me is at this point, she no longer wants your attention. So whatever attention you give won't impress her, but might actually piss her off. GAL and 180 will habe an effect more than anything else.
As for the relationship being conducted by phone conversations. That is exactly my sitch. W and OM had sex a couple of times on a cruise. Since then the relationship has been secret calls, text and messenger. But my W is so obsessed abiut living this fantasy in her words. That she is willing to give up me, family, friends and respect.
So yes it can go on longer than you think. If anything this prolongs everything. Because she never really gets to see the real OM. Not to mention, I just found out recently that SIL was aware of the A. OM just happens to be SIL first cousin who is married with children. And likely has been helping those two sneak around using her place. So your WW will be making attempts to meet up with OM. And those few experiences will mean a lot to your W.
