I disagree. I think moving back in the marital home and standing for what you believe in (marriage, family, children) actually shows confidence.
How about W: After a lot of thinking, I am going to move back in the martial home to keep things as normal as possible for our children. I would love for you to stay and work on our marriage together. I am respecting your decision for time and space for you to figure things out and if you feel you need to move out for this to happen I completely understand.
I like the sounds of that. Now to decide when. Should I just do this right away, like today? Or maybe wait till after the weekend since we both made plans for this weekend. Well I'm assuming she has weekend plans.
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
