Ok, now with the house situation. IMO, if you want to go back to the house go. When you go back, you walk in, and if your wife ask what you are doing, you say, "I'm coming back home". If she says why, you say, "because I want to be home". Say no more. Don't argue, don't talk about your feelings. Say that and then go to where you would sleep. Going back and forth don't show confidence. Go back home with confidence, knowing you won't be leaving again.
Sure wish I hadn't moved out twice in the last few weeks...coming back now shows a lack of confidence indeed. Something Ive been trying not to show. I know its going to be a discussion, sure I could ignore her but she's going to want to know why. If she demands an answer how bad would it be if I said the following: "im not the one wanting space so I shouldnt be the one that has to leave their home and children, if you want space that bad then you move out"
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
