Limerence and My Situation Pt3

[Btrow]

“I can’t go back to the MR after what I’ve done to you”

What a strange thing to say. How about "you'll never take me back after..." or "we can never recover from what I have done". It almost sounds as if she believe you would take her back with open arms.

So she only with him now because "she can't go back"? We will never understand the WW/WAW mindset, that's for sure.

Keep up the good work, you seem to be moving forward. I don't quite seem to get your visitation schedule though. Do the boys travel back and forth several times per week? And if so, are you both sure it is the best option for them? I get why she thinks she will miss them if she does not see them for 4 days, but you will get used to it. I don't see my kids for a full week, but after a couple of months it just becomes "normal".

The co-working situation. Don't worry about it. I'm sure that would be solved should the both of you want to R at some point. But keep living your life as if she'd never come back. That's the only way forward.