Agree with Roist. Assume he won't pay the mortgage and do what you need to do. Do you have kids? Do you have equity in the home? If you can't afford it on your own, consider your options. Hugs to you. Re filing and not getting served, it seems like a lot of the MLCers here have a hard time actually doing all of the legal work necessary for d so this could take years. Re blocking him on your cell for self preservation, you have to do what you have to do to preserve your sanity. You are the best judge of that.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving