My Story...

[Don23]

I had a marriage counseling session today and the counselor recommended that I stay out of the house at least until the end of the month, continue to be tough and stay away, only reply to texts and phone calls and not initiate and just see if anything changes in that time. However, I havent been impressed with my marriage counseling to this point and I feel that the people on this board probably understand me better than her. I just think that if I move back into the house there is no way of this marriage working....she is very cold to me, like she hates me. I moved out twice in the last 3 weeks, to come back again is such a roller coaster of a move. However, I'm not sure that me being out of the house is going to get us together either. I think I do like the idea of just moving back. I know it will be easier on the kids having me home and getting them to/from school. She wont be very happy about it I know that. It cramps her style! I'm pretty sure I have enough going on to keep me out of her hair while Im home and its not like I coulnd't still load up the kids for a weekend or something and get out of the house. By the way I'm off work right now because of this so that really bugs her because she thinks Im just always going to be home. The whole idea behind the time off though was to work on me and my family. Why not take advantage of that extra time and be with my kids 7 days a week and have me get them ready and take them to school instead of a neighbor.