Lost on how to save my marriage! 3

[joejoe1]

Update,

Yesterday my kids had a boosterton at their school. So W and I went. It was a great time. While we were waiting on S6 start time, wife told me she needed to talk to me. She starts talking about her future plans about college and how she has decided to go to a different college since the one shes has been trying to get into has been messing her around( and they really have). She told me about what she wants out of life. I listened and validated. I never inserted my future into the convo. This is her first time in a long time talking to me about her future. She has stop talking about getting a job. (Which she was talking about getting one to get on her feet an move, maybe it's a plan I just havent heard anything about it).

At the boosterton, I was lively, energectic, and talkative to the people around me (180s for me). I felt normal for the first time in years. So this BD was the situation that woke me up. I needed help and BD gave me the wake up call I needed. BD still sucked, but I needed to fix myself either way.

Fast forward to last night. She is calling my name all night long, to do this and that. And asking can I certain things certain ways. I listened, acknowledged and went on my way. I haven't heard my name called by her much in months. Maybe she is just temp testing. We shall see. Tonight if she's cold, we know it was temp testing.