The sooner you can get your on life, the better your success will be. Please read up on GAL. You are in assume mode. You dont have facts. Your wife is not he woman you married at this point. We subscribe to assume the worst on here so you can prepare yourself if it comes to that. I have 4 boys, I GAL as much as possible. I have lost almost 40 pounds and I'm cutting up. My wife is looking. Become a person only a fool would leave. Make it hard on ypur wife to make a decision. Its going to be hard work. Your mental state will need sometime, but the faster you start, IMO the faster you can get back to a focused mind.
Ive been working on myself physically for the last 5 weeks. I enrolled back in Boxing, something i used to do in college. Ive lost 20 lbs and am looking much more like the days when we got married. My emotional self however is just now starting to get worked on. Some days are better than others. I had a great day yesterday and half of today was pretty good but for no reason at all, the 2nd half of today hasn't been so good and my mind just keeps wandering. I hate it.
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
