My Story...

[Don23]

As of right now the OM isn't really an affair. I'm not sure just how far the relationship has progressed with him. He is part of her circle of new friends from the gym. He is a single father of a 7yr old girl and he has his own home. All but one of her closest friends even knows about him and as far as I know it has just been an emotional connection. He is providing the fun times that she has been missing out on with me. Obviously I dont like where it is headed but I really doubt she would move anyone in unless we were divorced. She would be so frowned on by each of our families and she knows the kids would not stay with her. She doesn't want a divorce by the way, I guess im a backup plan or something because she doesn't love me anymore. I think she's afraid to lose the family or is holding on to a tiny bit of hope that there may still be something between us. But it is killing me to just sit back and wait while she is out having a good time with her new found friends that I am not allowed to be a part of. I am getting some real quality time with my kids though since this weekend will be the 4th in a row that I get them all to myself and we make the most of it. It's disturbing that she is so eager to give them up each weekend considering during the week she really doesnt spend much time with them. She works an hour before school starts so the neighbors take them to school. I pick them up from school at 330 and help them with their homework and have them read to me. I drop them off at the house around 5 when she is home from work and she takes them to the gym where they go to daycare for 2 hours. She takes them home around 8 and they go to bed at 9. She literally spends an hour with them each day and even that time is mostly spent on her phone or making dinner...its not real quality time. No wonder they love seeing me. Anyway, its disturbing. She's not the same woman she was just a few months ago and I would love to have that woman back!