Yeh Rose you're probably right. But from the LBS perspective, all of these types of messages truly $uck because they end up giving weird signals. When I got something like this from my W I would have the following thoughts:
1. Why is she being nice? 2. Why is she messaging me about stuff like this when she asked for a separation? 3. Is she trying to temp check me? 4. If I am so great, why the hell doesn't she want to be with me?
keep adding to that list.
I know they all don't make sense, but it adds to the already emotional turmoil the LBS is in.