Yeh Rose you're probably right. But from the LBS perspective, all of these types of messages truly $uck because they end up giving weird signals. When I got something like this from my W I would have the following thoughts:

1. Why is she being nice?
2. Why is she messaging me about stuff like this when she asked for a separation?
3. Is she trying to temp check me?
4. If I am so great, why the hell doesn't she want to be with me?

keep adding to that list.

I know they all don't make sense, but it adds to the already emotional turmoil the LBS is in.


No one is coming to save you!