I think this is a good sign. Having that weight removed from you can free up your mental energy for better things.
Yes Sir.. I can't say that I have detached but I know this is out of my control and that my S and myself are going to be just fine either way. I've also been following your thread and although I don't believe I can offer any advice at this point, I'm hoping it starts to get better for you soon.
Me: 42 W: 47 S: 10 M: Almost 10 in Oct T: 15 1st BD: Feb 2016 Divorce Filed: Mar 2016 Separated: Mar 2016 Reconciled: Oct 2016 2nd BD: Aug 2017