Marie,

I will be honest with you most of us here struggle to find the why answer.

Not all us get the exact reason. Nit before anyhow. Dont let that consume you. Pls don't let it. It will hold you back.

The person your husband is now, is not the person you married. He most likely did feel that way. But his feelings has change. Listen to what he tell you his feelings are and validate his feelings. Read up on validation.

It's hard, and it will take hard work, to get to place to have a chance to get your H back. But DB and detaching is the best way possible for that to happen.

M:37 W:37
T:11 M:10
S17, S13, S10, S4
BD:06/28/17
OM confirmed 07/20/17
Recon the M 10/29/17
Working hard:2gether

Onward and forward

This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.