Thanks Job and Butterfly,

I figured I'd give him an achievable goal to start, but didn't say we'd be dating once he has 3 months. Three months lines up with his proposed Christmas visit--I'd be okay with a visit, IF he is clean for three months with therapy and no TT. No guarantees on anything. Way too soon for any of that. For now, taking in the nice things he says, but have another date next week.


"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson