I'm going to tell you now. A major message around here, is don't mind read. You will drive yourself crazy. Trying to mind read a WH or WAH is not healthy. I will also tell you the best way to find out from him is if you give him space and time. When he's ready to talk he will come and seek you out. Another major theme is you do GAL, 180s, and detachment for yourself the LBS. I read up on those daily. You will make mistakes, it's part of the process. Be patient and give time.
One last theme and it's a part of Sandi2 37 rules, believe none of what your S say and half of what they do. Start studying and applying the techniques. We are here for support. Come here a blog what events happen throughout the day and exactly what you did or didn't do. You are going to get a lot of advice here.
Last thing, please GAL, it will make time pass and get your mind off of this awful time in your life. I use meetup.com, maybe you can start there.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
