Like SwHubby said some vets will chime in, they are lerking. IMO, keep using the Credit Card like you always have. When you detach and GAL (Get a Life), you don't want your S knowing what you are doing. You want to create mystery. And GAL is for you. If you put what you doing on your CC, your H will not start missing you if he knows exactly what you are doing. Let go and start loving yourself. You have to become healthy as well.
The hard part is detaching. I will try to create mystey but I feel like he doesn't even think about me and our marriage. He already said he doesn't really think about me. Should I believe it? Do you guys think he thinks about our M. ?
