Like SwHubby said some vets will chime in, they are lerking. IMO, keep using the Credit Card like you always have. When you detach and GAL (Get a Life), you don't want your S knowing what you are doing. You want to create mystery. And GAL is for you. If you put what you doing on your CC, your H will not start missing you if he knows exactly what you are doing. Let go and start loving yourself. You have to become healthy as well.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
