Did she kick you out? If not go back home, to your house, is your name on the loan? In a marriage property is communal. Don't worry about how much she makes.
she didnt kick me out. I moved out a few weeks ago and at that time she didnt like the idea (even though she wanted space) but the home life and the sneakiness was killing me. Anyway, that lasted about 4 days and I was back. After being gone she didnt really want me to move back in, she said she wanted her space. I moved in anyway. Then when I discovered the sneaking off and being with another man (still unsure of the extent but at the very least her intentions are not good) I asked for a Divorce and I moved out for the 2nd time. Currently just staying with a friend while apartment searching. After being away for a few days I no longer want the divorce, at the present time and for the family I dont like the thought of just giving up. Now that I have moved out twice in 2 weeks and asked for a Divorce last Friday and then changed my mind on Tuesday. Do I just move back in? Even though I feel that this space may be helping, I really dont know I just get the feeling that it is. Me being at home with her is just awkward because it is nothing like it was when we loved each other. So if we need to be in seperate homes and its her wanting space and her seeking other relationships should I ask why she isnt the one moving out? Even though me taking on the mortgage, keeping the bills would be critical to my funds, not to mentioned my work schedule doesn't cooperate with the kids school schedule very well.
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
