Originally Posted By: Jmstl


Can you afford to pay them on your own, at all?


well the mortgage wouldn't be much more than a nice apartment (nice with xtra room for the kids) so I could swing it for a while but it would really tap me for any extra income. Not to mention if I am moved out for a while I will most likely have her take over the utilities which would make the apartment life much more affordable.


Me: 43
Wife: 37
2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G)
OM Discovered Mid Aug '17