Lost on how to save my marriage! 2

[sophene]

Hey Joejoe,
I too, wanted to save the marriage so bad but no matter what I did, detaching, hoping, blah blah blah, my spouse didn't seem to care. I started reading archives from chumplady.com and it put a whole new perspective on things. It made me realize that my soon to be ex husband is a narcissist. If it's meant to be, it should be on your terms and genuine. We humans are just specks on this universe so don't waste your time trying to reconcile with someone who doesn't truly love you back. As a former Marine, integrity and moral values are the criterias of a person's character. I wish there was a nationwide meetup for LBS to give support and have fun. Just my 2 cents