She refuses to go to be with him despite saying she wants to be with him. As I said earlier, he is in the military in Georgia and we are in Kentucky. She will not leave the children to be with him and he does not want children . They have both said they are not ready to live together and it will probably be a long time before they are.

right now i am at a crucial juncture~ I have a massive file to submit to the military that will ruin his career, and possibly end this mess. I am unsure if i should, because she told me if i do she will hate me forever, which in reality doesnt matter because She claims to be in love and that he is her soulmate, and she doesnt want to be with or have a lifge with me. What can i do to end this and get my WW back?


M 51 W 46
D14 S13
M 16yrs
T17yrs
BD 06/25/17
OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY
Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances