Hi Don....sorry you are here and for you sitch but you are in good hands.
The general advice around here is for the LBS to not move out of his home or the MBR. If anyone leaves it is the cheater.
Read Sandi's reflections below and the link's cadet provided and that should hopefully help get you off to a good start. Also if you don't want a D stop talking out D or your R in general. Additionally stop all pursuing activities immediately.
