First - you have nothing to apologize about. HE broke the marriage and he isn't doing the work necessary to repair it. You should have eace in your heart that you did everything you could do to save the marriage. This is on him now.
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I am done with his criticisms of my clothes, hair, weight (I weigh 115 pounds BTW and 5'1, meanwhile he is at least 20 lbs overweight) my smiles lines aka wrinkles,
Read my recent discussion with bttrfly on the Mid Life crisis forum about this very thing.