Why the need to know why? Will that really help you? And if so... Why? Your IC is likely looking at it this same way. It might be NICE to know why you are doing something but you NEED to know how to stop it. That's what IC is focused on. Think of it this way, if you were infected with Lymes disease it would be NICE to know how you got it - was it a tic? What you really need though is treatment to fix it. You may never know how you were infected but need to get it solved. It's the same here. You may never know why but the good thing is you don't have to - you just need to learn how to fix it. That's what IC is doing.
DonH Midwest Me 56 WAW-EXW 55 Met 11/95 / Married 5/00 Bomb 6/20/05 / She Filed on 6/2/06 / Divorced on 10/9/06 4 who'd qualify as GF since D & dated about 25 women since D
