I feel like I could just google stuff about wanting to be a fixer/saver, having low self-esteem, etc. and that's more insightful than IC!
I think IC is a lot like sex; sometimes doing it yourself is pretty good, but if you have a good partner, it can be great. It's also possible that the metaphor doesn't really work. Actually, it's kind of creepy. I'll talk to my IC about that, or maybe I'll google myself.
