Another question - I asked her to try and work on us and she refused to end it with him. She said to try would be cheating on him and that was wrong. So its ok to cheat on me, your husband, but wrong to cheat on OM? What the hell type of thought process is that?
Her crazy mixed up one which is quite typical and really part of the script.
My suggestion is to push them together and stop providing for any of her needs, let her go. DETACH, you are not going to win her back by continued pursuit.
