Still bad at DB

[sophene]

Hey Dale, try reading on chumplady.com, it might change your perspective on things. I used to want to save my marriage so bad, but all I was doing was stressing myself out and diminishing my self worth. If it was meant to be, it'll happen and it must be genuine reconciliation. I realized that if my husband wanted to reconcile with me, I would have to look over my shoulder for the rest of my life, is that the marriage I want to be in? Hell no! The Marine in me says take the high road, have moral integrity, and have the courage to live your life authentically for YOUR happiness.