Hi Irish , understandable that the post stung however ir is what it is and things like this mean nothing in the grand scheme.

Always great to read about the magical bond between you and your Ds. They knew a family life with Exw and you but they now know they have a rock in you that will always and forever be there for them. You show them with actions how a parent protects their children through times of adversity. You stood and still stand tall and will continue to do so. Be very proud of yourself because your dealing with exw and all that it entails is beyond alot of people. ( me included )

Stay strong, Rd