She has always been way more stubborn than me. She will win this. I will blink. IDK when, but I will. And she knows it.
This is going to become, 'at what point do I reach out, why, and how?' And 'have I waited long enough that maybe her heart has softened just a little?' vs 'have I waited too long and she's completely tuned into the new life?'
AG,
Going NC is allowing her time and space to figure things out. She is going to figure out if life is better without AG or maybe she was wrong and life sux w/o AG. Either way you have to let her figure it out.
If you take the focus off of W *completely* she will notice. That will give her space to breathe, and to think. That's the only way these things turn around -- the ONLY way.
If you go all clingy and needy on her that will push her away further.
I know your mind is thinking have I waited too long and she's completely tuned into the new life? The thing is she has to want to comeback for the right reasons.
My wife and I got back together after we separated for the wrong reasons (kids,finances,family friends) and I could feel it and it was an awful feeling.
I am getting divorced but I now realize my life is going to be fuching awesome moving forward because I will make it fuching awesome. I will find someone who treats me like a king and I will treat her like my queen.
Right now I think you really need to start working on your self confidence moving forward. Are you exercising and seeing an IC?
