There's enough money in said account to get thru another week. I'll sit tight for a week. Maybe she'll stop by the house in the interim, in which case she'll get my note about (among other things) funding the account.
If that doesn't happen, and/or the fund is nearly depleted, I'll send a simple text like, 'shared fund is nearly dry. please add $$.'
How does that sound?
Me48 W46 D22 D20 T30 M28 BD/PA revealed 05/2017 W moved out 06/2017 DB started 9/6/2017