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[Gordie]

R,

I like your comment about not pre emoting spouse's actions are responses to what you want to do. So sounds good that if you want to do the appreciation day, then maybe go ahead and do it. My concern is that if w feels in appreciated it is more about the daily thank you and noticing when the floor is mopped or her hair is re done than about something showier like an appreciation day, but I may be projecting on your situation. You know best.