Mate we all understand how hard it is to detach and go NC trust me I have a whole heap of issues with it BUT how do you win this "game"? I'm surprised the vets haven't chipped in!
Those 3 magic letters GAL...
Get out do ANYTHING, I walk ALOT go to the cinema and just recently spend time away overnight a massive 180 for me.
Plan in advance, use this to keep your mind off your W what else have you got to do? Enjoy the time and before you know it the pursue cycle will be reversed with you now the more interesting individual.
You can do this.
Mark.
DR'ing started March 2017
Don't blow the last bridge up from fantasy island, act "as if".
