but as a L, it baffles me why someone would resist getting free information about the biggest financial transaction of their life
WHILE their spouse is in their face discussing financial and legal matters and probing for information fro them.
Sure, jot down some notes for questions but you need to arm yourself asap.
This is not you filing for divorce, it's not a "Step" in that direction. It's you asking questions about what you risk by various paths and how you can protect yourself while not pushing for a divorce.
It can be very empowering to learn what your options are, (choosing to stay married Not out of fear, for instance)
and it can be a guide for seeing red flags faster, when your emotions don't want to see certain things.
Hang in there
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
