Trying to do the right thing...

[SBJ]

OC, I can only tell you that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. I am only a month out from signing my papers and it all still seems surreal.

As has been said on here before...believe none of what they say and only half of what they do when they are clearly still in MLC.

During my ordeal, I spoke with some of her family and friends...I know now that that is highly frowned upon, but during that time she would say, "If we are to work things out you have to stop talking to people". I took that as, she wanted to work things out. On the contrary, she was wanting to continue with the D, but didn't want anyone to know what was happening unless it came from her.

Sounds like she is in severe depression if she is talking suicide. Either that or she is seeking attention. Neither one is good and I would think that both reasons are cause for her getting counseling.

You are probably right as far as you zipping your lips. Sometimes they use everything you say against us and then have even more ammo later.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers over the next few days.