So pulling out of the driveway today, I had an idea: I should just concentrate on what I have, and just ignore what I've lost. When I look at what I have: friends, family, two good boys, some cool things and hopefully a cool house, living in the USA, I should be happy. My Wnis the only negative, so if I just take that out of the equation, I'm doing great! This fits with how I've felt all along.
It is like I just time warped from 26 to 42 and picked up two kids along the way. It feels good. I'm in better shape too!
M: 41 W: 41 Married 2003 2 boys 9 & 6 Bomb Dropped May 2017