Did you give her the money? Was it her fault for mismanaging her finances or did she really have a problem that you had to help out with?
I think the finances is a big deal, but must dealt with in a delicate process. My wife is a SAHM, and I can see a judge going in on me. A soldier, 6'3 215 pounds and my wife showing him how I took the money to control her. I have to be smart in this area.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.