Down day today, knowing D22 will be seeing W. Some days I feel detaching is going well, others not so much.
When my W moved out it took me about 1.5 mths before I felt much better.
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I know I haven't been DBing long at all, but already it's like watching paint dry at times. Will I have the patience for this? Doesn't W know that I'm still partially attached by the mere fact I'm not filing for D?
I question that myself but I also know that I am ready to date again either so I tell myself what's the difference other than a piece of paper and money.
Each day will get better and better, a little easier. I think it you want to save your MR give yourself more time and working on yourself. I think ultimately if you want to file you do it when you have given your W every chance to see the new and improved you. At that point either she jumps on board or doesn't but either way your golden!
