So the more I read and research various articles I'm almost certain that W is going through a MLC. A few of the articles I read indicated that women form traumatic childhoods will more than likely go through a MLC. It's not a matter of if, but when. My W father was a heavy drinker and abusive to the kids. He ultimately left them when she was young and they grew up in poverty. A few of the articles went on to say that everything bad that has taken place in her life, I was going to take the blame.

She left me a short letter on my PC this morning. It basically read that once I truly find the women I love I would never to anything to hurt her. That I would never have to apologize for making her cry and that I would always be there to hold her when she needed me. It ended with this. "As far as us, The Lostrig Family, our road is at its end and two new roads are awaiting".

How is a MLC so different from a WW? Do we handle it the same? Detach, 180 and GAL?


Me: 42
W: 47
S: 10
M: Almost 10 in Oct
T: 15
1st BD: Feb 2016
Divorce Filed: Mar 2016
Separated: Mar 2016
Reconciled: Oct 2016
2nd BD: Aug 2017