Thanks Tim...as for LD HD hmmmm. After his years of increasing alcohol he ended up with erectile dysfunction. Sober since 6/03 and goes to AA usually 3-4 times a week.(you can check my other posts for more background)and finally went to urologist in 9/03, got Viagara, it does work, but he feels he needs to sleep in other bedroom "to get his proper rest, listen to sports radio to fall asleep to" and yes to watch porn, use the vibrator and go to sleep. The rare times we sleep together are only on his days off (not all of them). I'm just tired of feeling like a roommate instead of a wife. When we got married 9 yrs ago we were both HD; guess I'm the leftover. Thanks for listening. PBH
