I would give ANYTHING for my wife to jump into bed and start touching me. I would sell my soul for t
I'm going to simplify what Corri said....
You don't have the ability to sell your soul because you you've given your W joint custody of it. The minute you reclaim your piece that she's responsible for, your marriage will change. I just learned this.
"WTF Dave?...I don't know what you mean". My W was finally honest with me and said I was giving her too much "ownership" of my happiness and that it sucked. She wants a guy who is independently happy. It's funny because I didn't "see" what she was "truly" saying until last night. The "choose happiness" thing she was doing to me and the "go ride your bike" were pleas to "develop my own identity, be happy within it, then seduce me with your self esteem and strength". I made up the last part but I'm pretty certain that when women say that "confidence" is sexy, that's what they mean. That's why I've been having trouble...I've learned to "seem" confident in bars and it has drawn women to me. My W knows the "real me" which she feels requires "nurturing" like a child. Now that I think about it, "Care and Feeding of your Husband" is a really sh!tty title because it connotes a "parent-child" relationship. Oh man, I'm hanging it out there one more time....f*ck Dr. Laura. She is a self-promoting fruit loop. Isn't it funny how Schnarch is actually working for so many of us here but you would never see him on Oprah because he couldn't explain this stuff to the masses in a 15 minute segment.
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