Despite filing for D, my W still hasn't decided on when she's going to tell our S. I made it clear to her that we have to do it together. In an effort to be civil and provide my S with a family outing outside of church I have invited my W to a couple of events with my S. Not surprisingly she either ignored my invitation or gave a lame excuse to not attend. Mind you, I didn't care if she came, I just wanted to give her an opportunity to spend quality time with our S.
A few days later I found her phone unlocked and noticed that she continues to text her paramour on a daily basis. She told him that my invitations were "unwanted advances"! Naturally, she failed to tell him that I had simply invited her to a family event with her son. It's amazing how she manipulated this. To what purpose? To make the OM jealous? I don't get it.
Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress M: 44, W: 44, S: 7 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17